so... since this is a relationship help blog i figure it makes most sense to adress acheiving a meaningful relationship before going on to helping those in relationships.so here goes...
1. so some people believe there is one person in this world that will match them perfectly... this is completely false! in actuallity there are many apon many of people in this world who you could compat with very easily, so look around, explore your options and look for that special attraction. dont limit yourself to just focusing on one, for by doing that you let countless others get away. i mean that person may even be the one, but i mean you definatly have a better chance of winning the lottery if you buy many tickets as apposed to just one.
2. dont let physical beauty blind you. dont just look for someone whome society has taught you to believe is beautiful, everyone is beautiful. this is extremely evident when you find one of the right people with a beautiful personality, because when you see their inner beauty they will always look that much more appealing and may change what you define as beauty. the people you want to associate with are those that make you forget completely that they even have a body sometimes because you are so intranced by there personality, no matter how they look.
3.have confidence in yourself. many people feel that they are unable to get have a chance with certain people, this is not how you should view yourself. never be afraid to engage another person, even if you think theres only 0.001% chance of gaging a positive response, thats an infinite times larger then the o% if you dont give it a chance at all.
4.listen. when engaging a person of interest dont do all of the talking, sure you should let them know about you but more importantly you should look for every oppertunity to listen and learn about said person, for this is how you identify possibly compatible parteners.
5.treat people like they are the most beautiful creatures in the world, because well, they are. everyone is beautiful and perfect to someone. dont waste peoples time by being with them for the sake of it, you should really want it, otherwise your hurting them by taking away valuable time at finding there real"solemate" so to speak.
there are many people out there whome you could call miss/mr right, alot are right infront of you, and i hope i have helped someone. if you have anything to add please leave comments... happy hunting
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